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BACP Certified Counsellor Elizabeth Cross Counselling
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Elizabeth Cross Counselling Profile

About Me

Abuse is more than just a word—it’s an experience that can feel like a constant weight or a shadow following you wherever you go. It can feel as though the trauma will never fade, as if abuse has rewritten your life story without permission. But while the scars may run deep, healing is possible.

Hi, I’m Beth, a qualified eclectic and trauma-informed counsellor and psychotherapist. I’m passionate about creating a therapeutic experience as unique as each individual I work with. I believe that no two people’s experiences or needs are the same, which is why I tailor my approach to meet you exactly where you are. Whether you’re navigating past trauma, facing relationship challenges, or seeking personal growth, I’m here to provide support that aligns with your unique journey. I have extensive experience working with individuals who have faced emotional, physical, and sexual abuse, as well as those affected by narcissism, gaslighting, and the confusion and self-doubt these toxic dynamics often create. I also support clients experiencing depression, anxiety, and challenges with self-discovery. My aim is to provide a compassionate, non-judgmental space where all feelings are valid, and healing can begin. In my previous career, I spent 21 years working with individuals coping with life-changing illnesses and life on dialysis. That experience deepened my empathy for the complex ways physical and emotional health intersect. I also work extensively with LGBTQIA+ clients, understanding the unique challenges related to identity, relationships, and societal pressures.

As someone with ADHD, I am particularly passionate about supporting neurodiverse individuals in navigating life’s complexities. My practice is rooted in creating a safe, inclusive space where you can feel truly heard and understood, no matter your background or experiences. If you’re feeling stuck in harmful patterns or overwhelmed by doubts in your relationships, please know that these feelings are normal. Through both my professional experience and personal insight, I deeply understand the impact of childhood trauma, including sexual, physical, emotional, and narcissistic abuse. Too often, survivors carry feelings of blame and shame, even though the responsibility lies entirely with the abuser. I’m here to help you explore those emotions, find clarity, and rediscover your strength.

Therapy may feel like a daunting step, but it can also be a transformative one. If you feel I might be the right person to support you, please reach out. Together, we can work toward healing and creating lasting, positive change in your life.

What Others Say

Sharon
When you see Beth, you will see a friendly non judgmental person who has experienced so much in her own life, that she will give you empathy and you can expect honesty from her.
Sue
Beth excels in her ability to demonstrate a deep level of understanding and empathy to her clients. Holding them in a calm, safe space where they feel listened to and understood, she enables them to process their issues and reach their therapeutic goals.
Wisteria
Elizabeth is a competent empathic counsellor who offers a compassionate ear to those that have suffered with traumatic events. She has a wealth of experience in helping clients that have suffered domestic violence in particular
Sal - Lee
Elizabeth has a great rapport with clients and offers a wealth of experience when it comes to helping clients that are in abusive relationships. Her kind compassionate approach ensures her clients feel safe, heard and cared for at all times
Nicki
Beth is an amazing therapist! She will listen attentively to you, provide empathy and understanding to any issues you may bring into the therapy room. Beth has lovely nature and you will feel safe in her presence.
Hannah
Elizabeth's knowledge of sexual abuse is brilliant, she is an effective, caring counsellor in this area. She has a way of making you feel safe when talking to her. I highly recommend her.
Clare
Beth has been an incredible therapist who has truly supported me over the past year. Her empathetic listening and encouragement have been pivotal in my journey of growth and healing. She creates a safe, judgment-free environment where I feel at ease sharing my traumas, thoughts, and concerns.

With her guidance, I’ve grown tremendously and am uncovering a stronger, more resilient version of myself. I am deeply grateful for her support and wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone seeking genuine care and transformative growth. I always leave our sessions feeling positive, refreshed and supported.
Abbie
I can't recommend Beth as a therapist enough! She is extremely knowledgeable, fantastic at listening & understanding what you are saying, and caring. She creates a safe space, in which I feel so comfortable to be myself. Beth always asks the right questions and will ALWAYS celebrate my wins and good moments with me, no matter how small! It's strange to say that I look forward to therapy, but I do, as I know after my session with Beth I will always leave feeling empowered, and ready to tackle another day!

My Approaches

I work with clients who have suffered a range of issues; alcohol, depression, domestic, narcissism, sexual abuse and many more. I treat each person and event differently using a range of expert approaches including the following and more.
Transactional Analysis
Transactional Analysis explores how different aspects of your personality (Parent, Adult, Child) shape your interactions and relationships. It offers insights to improve communication and resolve conflicts.
Humanistic
Humanistic therapy focuses on your strengths and potential for growth. It provides a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts and feelings, helping you move toward a more authentic and fulfilling life.
Ecletic
Eclectic therapy combines different therapeutic techniques tailored to your unique needs. By drawing from various approaches, it offers flexible, personalized support to help you achieve your goals in a way that works best for you.
FAQ
What Are My Session Fees?
Individual sessions are £60 for 50 minutes.
How Can You Pay?
Payment is accepted via cash or bank transfer. These can be paid on the day or in advance.
When Are My Availabilities?
I have appointments ranging from: Monday - Thursday
10am - 9pm
What Happens To Cancellations?
Sessions cancelled with under 24 hours notice will be charged at the normal rate.
Where Are Sessions Held?
I offer face to face therapy in Southend. As well as online therapy.

Please note there is no disabled access
What Are My Qualifications?
CPACB Counselling Diploma Level: 2/3/4
Transactional Analysis
Trauma informed therapy diploma
Higher diploma in Eclectic
LGBTQI+ Workshop
Gestalt dreams workshop
Contact Me
You can contact me here and ask any queries or worries you may have. I also offer a 15 minute free consultation, claim by calling or emailing me.
Elizabeth Cross Counselling
Essex, Westcliff-On-Sea
Southend-On-Sea, SS0 0HA
327 Bridgwater Dr
Call Me: +44 7415 781757
Email Me: elizabethcrosscounselling@gmail.com
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Disclaimer: Counselling is intended for general and support purposes only and is not suitable for emergency or crisis intervention. If you are in immediate danger or experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact your local emergency services or reach out to a crisis helpline.